Couples therapy with family constellation
Discover, understand and solve the causes behind couple conflicts
A family constellation reveals what lies behind the conflicts in a partnership
Do you have problems in your relationship? Do you both end up in unwanted roles? Do you keep arguing about similar topics? Do you recognize the pattern, but don't know where it comes from or how to solve it?
In couple relationships, conflicts often reveal unresolved issues from the partners' respective family systems. It was usually these topics that unconsciously attracted you to your partner in the beginning.
If this is the case, then the couple conflicts are difficult to resolve at the partnership level. Because the symptom is usually not the cause.
Approach
For me, couple problems are symptoms. It's not about looking at who is right or to blame. I assume that two people basically like each other when they come to me and there is something (a blockage) between them that needs to be recognized and resolved. Most of the time, each partner is so caught up in their own patterns or family entanglements that a simple “please behave like this and that” doesn’t work. We look together at what the conflict pattern wants to tell us and what it wants to point out to us. At the end of the process, one is often surprised at how appropriate the conflicts have been to draw attention to a specific topic.
Issue
All couple problems can be illuminated through family constellations. - The only requirement is that both partners are open to the process.
If this is not the case and only one partner is willing to discuss their topic, then I recommend to book an individual session.
Sequence
In a joint session, we take a lot of time to get to the bottom of the causes in the respective family systems that led to the perceived blockage. After describing the conflict, we see where the clues lead us. We set up the family system of both partners with figures. This brings the first important insights. We then identify the basic conflicts of both partners in their respective systems.
You can find more explanations and background information on the methodology of family constellations here.
If you would like someone to accompany you afterwards, I would be happy to help.
Location
Ungererstr. 112, 80805 Munich
Length of time
2:45 hours
Individual session with system or family constellation
1:30 hours
Individual session (systemic couples therapy)
Appointments by arrangement
Fee
Couples constellation (2:45 hours)
330 EUR
Systemic couples counseling for two (1:45 hours)
220 EUR
Individual sessions with setup (1:45 hours)
180 EUR
Individual session (0:55 hours)
120 EUR
Additional time
55 EUR per half hour
For longer accompaniment, package prices can be agreed.